I’ve started a guys group called Xn Fight Club, that meets in my home Thursdays. It’s comprised of mainly non-believers and no-longer-believers with some not-sure-what-I-believers. I want to share part of a conversation we delved into this week.

Well let me also let it be known, that this is not a bible study or anything of that nature. I’m looking to wake up this group of 7 young men (ages 16-19). And my goal isn’t to make them good, because I was reminded this week that “Jesus did not come to make bad people good, but came to make the dead alive (Ravi Zacharias).” Life is what I’m seeking and it’s what these boys need.

Back to the conversation.

This was something I take no credit in, I was just blessed to be apart of this. We began to talk about what their thought about God were. Brian (not his real name), one of the young men said that, “I don’t want to be a Christian because I’ve never seen a good one. And besides every time I go to church I either fall asleep or get an endless list of rules I have to do. I’ve tired it and there’s nothing there for me.” I love openings like that one.

I discussed with the rest of the group about their opinions on the subject. Most agreed inpart to what he was saying.

Then it came to me (meaning, not my own thoughts) and I asked them: ”What if we’ve missed the point of Christianity. What if all you see is wrong! What if you’re right. But would it piss you off if these people were standing between you and finding true life in Christ?”

Brian rebutted, ”You mean, like, someone’s got my million dollars in this room and they won’t let me get to it? Well I’d do anything to push past them and get what is mine! Da*n them, they need to get out of my way!”

Then I asked them if they’d be willing to forget what they’ve seen, heard, or been through and embark upon a journey into finding out who Christ really was. And remarkably they said, “yes.” These young men don’t want to hear what they’re doing wrong. They aren’t looking to follow any rules or conform. But what they do want is a journey, an adventure and someone to walk it out with. They want a Savior King, but just haven’t seen Him yet. Pray that their eyes are opened to the Lord as we continue on. It’s going to get interesting.

[to be continued...]

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7 Responses to “Xn Fight Club: The Conversation Begins [1]”
  1. Religion stinks! Christianity is about a relationship with a living Spirit Being who, for some strange reason, happens to long for our companionship…see Adam and Eve.

    The Pharisees controlled the Church in the days when Jesus walked the earth. It’s still the same today. He was ticked off at them then and He most likely still feels the same way.

  2. Great stuff Stuart. I wonder how I could get something like that started?

  3. Thanks for sharing that.

  4. Thanks for sharing this. What an excellent idea. I’ve been reflecting lately on how much of my ministry is expected to be focused on those within the church. But what about those on the outside, looking in, or those who have been hurt by the church and may never come back if we don’t reach out.

  5. Excellent! Sounds like the perfect outreach, Stuart. You go! :-D

  6. ” brian” cracks me up

  7. April DeFelice says:

    WOW! Everyone can look back when they were in high school and remember struggling with finding their meaning and place. That is the best age to reach out and help.

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